The man i love with all my heart just told me ...

My heart goes out to you. You both had a good time while it lasted but you are unfortunately left to pay the bill. I am not sure what you can do except to have him speak with a social worker. Your story should be broadcast to every young girl who thinks that giving herself to a persuasive man does not entail problems or responsibility for her.  I pray that you can get him to change his mind and accept responsibility.

unfortunately you fell in love with the wrong man, and now have to pick up the broken plates. he was not ready for the family you were so ready and willing to give him, and a tad to late he decided to be honest, this type of responsibility comes natural you can not make a blind man see.  last but not least if anything you will have to make him responsible with his coming child wether he is mature enough to do so or not. with this responsibility he might come around. take it day by day and do not force him into anything that might just let you down on the long run. good luck!

everything was fine until u got pregnant.  it is quite obvious that he neither wants a family or a commitment.  u are not meant to be.  so don't waste ur time trying to convince him just make sure he takes responsibility financially.  it is a shame.  didn't u see the warning signs of the kind of man he is?  u have to be careful.  what he told u is a bunch of bull.  i am sorry for your situation.  maybe when he sees the baby after it's born, let's hope he changes his mind.  he will need to pay child support.  don't be surprised if he runs off with another chick.  but then again it might just be that he is scared of the responsibility of being a father.  try talking to him some more and see if he'll go to counselling.

This is so sad..The man that you love simply avoiding his responsibility..:(

That man is so stupid!!! he's about to recieve the most wonderful gift he would ever recieved from God and he's trying to avoid it and escapes  from his Obligations. I say this girl He is not man enough and you dont deserve him. If that man does'nt want any commitment or responsibility,then so be it. Im sure you'll gonna get a better life wthout him. Just be strong and leave everything to the lord.

You have to take responsibility for this too Roxy.  Having unprotected sex is not a good idea if you're not ready for a baby!  You don't say how long you 2 were together or how serious it was; but his answer was a really dumb one!  That doesn't sound like something he would say to you if were in a committed relationship and planning on having a baby together.  Us women have to look out for OURSELVES and OUR BODIES!  Please, whatever you decide, be more responsible from now on!