How do you know when he.....

How do you know when he really loves you?

Liked this question? Tell your friends about it

11 Answers

Order by
Oldest to Newest
Newest to Oldest
Votes

I think you can feel love develop in a relationship.  Usually when one begins to love the other, the same is happening the other way around.  When you see sparks, when you get that crazy feeling in your stomach, when you can't think of other words to say and just want to say "I love you!"... I think that you can tell in the way one treats you, as well.  If you don't feel loved, then I'd say that he either has a problem showing it or that he doesn't love you.  Use your intuition and you will know. 

We're not retreating... we're advancing in another direction. -General Douglas MacArthur

can answer this question for you .As a male,I have been in love one time in my life .I can give to the details of what you need to know .Contact me at this link and I give you the best personal advice you can receive.

 

http://www.bitwine.com/users/talktomee
<a href="http://bitwine.com/users/talktomee" rel="nofollow">http://bitwine.com/users/talktomee</a>

You can feel it in his touch and see it in his eyes.

Live & let live.

When I young , If the guy kissed me with his eyes open I knew he wasn't that interested. Today I think finding a main sign very difficult. I think your gut feeling is the leading one.

When he is acting strange, constantly bothering you about your relationship, doing STUPID things for you. You will see him acting weird, avoiding telling you how he feels. We men are strange birds!! to say the least. until we can't handle our emotions anymore, then and only then will the actual words "I LOVE YOU" come out of our mouths with an almost embaresed statement.

Well,i'm a guy and i'm not even totually sure when i love someone.

Detective:The persone who stole it went this way assistant:no du sherlock holmes detective:how do you know? assistant:he's right there eating it

His eyes glowed a glow that warmed my very soul. He smiled and I found myself smiling back, because his smile just has that effect on me. It's said that the eyes are the windows to a person's soul...I saw unconditional love, happiness, and truth in his eyes at that very moment. I knew, before he even said it what he was about to say:

 "I love you, Kari."

In answer to your question, there will be quite a few signs, but they may vary.

  • When you look into his eyes, they will glow and/or sparkle with emotion when he looks at you.
  • When he smiles, it will reach his eyes and you'll be able to tell it's a true smile, not a fake.
  • His touch will be softer, gentler, more of a caress.
  • He will go out of his way to do things just to see you smile.
  • He will wait 2 years to see you in person.
  • He will say "I love you" in a soft, gentle, loving voice, while smiling that gentle smile that makes his eyes glow.
  • Instead of using his money to buy video games, he'll buy you a little teddy bear for your birthday that he knows you'll love, even when you told him you don't want anything.
  • He will buy you another little teddy bear for Christmas that's holding a heart pillow that says "Girlfriend" on it, and he'll kiss the heart before packaging it up and sending it to you.
  • He'll risk getting caught texting in class because you're far away from home on a band trip and you text him saying "I miss you."
  • He'll tell you you're beautiful...And he'll mean it.
  • He will rack up a huge international call phone bill just to hear your voice.

Most importantly...

He will wait for you no matter what happens.

 

Keep in mind...these are all personal experiences and may be different for you and your guy, but this is how it was for me.

 

Good luck :) 

Even when all else has failed you...there will always be love.

you'll feel it when he holds you you'll feel so safe . when your sick he'll take care of you . he'll always try and make you happy. he'll put you and your needs before his friends. he'll call you for no reason other than just to hear your voice; and no matter what you look like even on your worst day he'll tell you your beautiful. most importantly he'll stick by your side no matter what drama life brings you...... remember it's easy to love someone when times are good and in life you never know what will happen but you'll know he loves you when times get hard and he's right by your side.

Related Questions

Other people asked questions on similar topics, check out the answers they received:

Asked: Love or leave???

I am in a long distance relationship from 3 years. the problem is, i have no interest left now. we don't even meet and he doesn't feel the need to. he loves me a lot. i don't even want to hurt him ...

Asked: Love

i'm waiting for love,but i hav not girl frds,hw can i find out to her?

Asked: 18, male, love, unnoticed

Well, a friend that i've known for about a year, and I've always had this thing for him. -I'm bi. I'm still in the closet We met at my senior year when I moved here and we both went to LMA, Laurence ...