Discuss Shedragon's answer to: Love

i wander with all the answers except with mine of course. have u people ever seen anyone winning ones love...read infatuation,cos thats what it is...by simply telling them we love them? no of course not. love is a game,if not a war. straitforwardness does not win one to love us back. love is not an answer to out love. things are more complicated here,cos both partners in love affairs are in war over power. who loves more looses...

so i again suggest to the asker to find out about whether the other man is maybe straight. when this is clear,and he is gay too,then only can u kinda look for the signs he likes u too. but we dont come and tell someone out of the blue that we love them. this will scare them. u better show it some way or another but dont just tell him. chances is he does not share yr feelings cos love is a rare bird unfortunately...