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Hello! I seem to have a lack of sexual desire ...

hello! I seem to have a lack of sexual desire. when I was 13 was forced to have sex with my boyfriend how was 5 yrs elder to me. after him, i fell in love with another boy with whom I had a healthy sexualy relation..but he ended up cheating on me. Now, with my current partner I do seem to have the desire to have sex. I try to let him touch me n get closer bt something inside wants me to push him off..I dont get aroused and sometimes have to pretend that I am enjoying as much as he is so that he does not feel rejected. I love him dearly bt my sex life is getting worse and worse! please help me..

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Being forced to have sex is rape. And most women need a therapist to get over it.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.

Rosy, if you've never allowed yourself to grieve over that first sexual encounter, which was rape, you will need to make an appointment with a good therapist.  A Professional, who is trained in these matters needs to help you see the truth of the matter.  Don't put this off.  Your future happiness is at stake here.  Best of everything to you.

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