Why do people that are not stressed tell the people that are that it is easy to control? Do you think that people with stress problems bring on themselves?
Actually yes I do believe and know that to be true.
Many don't like the sound of this because we lack accountability now days and we like to blame everything outside of “self” for our current predicaments.
The good news is if you take responsible for why you are creating the stresses you can then begin to study the behavior be it subconscious or conscious to get at the source and change the behavior.
The change will only occur when you truly start sending out the signals that state that you want the very opposite result of what you are getting.