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How can I increase my mans sex drive?

How can I increase my mans sex drive? I don't know if it's me that he just doesn't want to have sex with or if he just doesn't want it. It just really sucks because I like to have the physical, emotional, and mental parts of a relationship but he says he only likes the mental and emotional.  We used to have sex every time we saw each other and know its like once every two or three weeks. I just don't know what to think anymore...so any answer I guess would help.

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It could be .... opps to be completed, dinner burn

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I have a hard time answering these questions because my sex drive hasn't diminished at all and I can't imagine not wanting to make love to the woman I loved as often as possible. It's really unfathomable to me.


However, perhaps he has some physical problems. Or he may be stressed out. He may be having erectile dysfunction and be ashamed to tell you. Men don't suddenly stop desiring sex without a reason.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.

Thanks Bonestructure.  I dont know whats wrong with him...I could be in really sexy lingerie and he still doesnt wanna do anything. This shouldn't be happening in a relationship of a 23 year old man and a 21 year old woman.  Im at the point that I dont wanna ask for sex or beg for sex because I get rejected from him.

You're right, it shouldn't be happening to someone so young. I had assumed you were older, as this generally doesn't happen to people in their twenties. That makes it even harder for me to imagine a reasonable explanantion.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.

I know its a hard topic. I ask my friends who are girls and my friends who are guys and their puzzled too.

It could be hes getting it away from home????. Or he is just working to hard at work. Or it could be he just lost his sex drive if all fails have a talk with him as that's what i would do it can't hurt at this point.

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All I can say is he better not be gettin it away from home. But I think I am gonna have a talk with him because he knows some what that its bothering me.  So I guess by asking the worst thing that could happen is him telling me he is gettin it away from home Undecided

Well since I have posted this question, my boyfriend and I have had a huge talk about everything.  We talked about the whole sex thing and he said there was no one else. Just that hes been told things by girls about sex that kind of turn him off from having sex. Such things like hes horrible at sex and that he has a small member...just things that girls say to be just complete bitches. I have told him my thoughts and feelings about our sex life and the size of his member.  I told him that I think hes really good at sex because if it wasnt I probably wouldnt want to have it.  I've also told him that his member is a good size and its not small.  So, I guess we will have to see from there what happens.

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