My husband treats me like his mother. Very respectful, caring, loving, like the most important thing in his life. But at the same time is hooked on pornography, strip clubs,some really disturbing smut. He has been sneeking around doing this for 9 years. He seeks out single friends to live this life with him. Our sex life is nill because he cannot perform, he is masturbating to porn several times a day. He is very disrepectful to his woman friends, flirts shamelessly and talks smut to them. He absolutely adores his sister, his sister is God to him, and she goes to strip clubs with him, she sends him info on prostitutes, etc. I am looking for an analysis of this man to try and understand why he is like this.