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Husband with no sex drive

My husband has NO sex drive. Even in our early years of marriage, the sex was very seldom. Now we haven't had sex in 10 years. I love him and he is so good to me in other ways. I made a concious decesion years ago to stay with him and be faithful, but I feel cheated for missing out on the sex. We have tried therapy. Didn't help I don't want him to feel it is a duty. I want him to want to. Please help.

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NopoliBeen
NopoliBeen Answered:

I think that you really need to try therapy again.  It is really not acceptable for your husband to deprive you of sex.  As I just explained to another person in Yedda, sex isn't just about feeling good.  It's about showing your love in a way that is magical.  You are being deprived of one of the most special parts of being with someone.  If he won't change, no matter what, then I think that you need to leave, and move on with your life.  I know it hurts, but no woman should have to go 10 plus years with no sex.  That's just mean  and wrong.

We're not retreating... we're advancing in another direction. -General Douglas MacArthur
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WantaRichgrl
WantaRichgrl Answered:

Sounds like your husband has a problem like he might not be able to get it up. men have big egos and they rather just ignore a problem like that cause mentally they my feel like they are not a man. You are a very good women to stick by him cause a lot of women would be cheating on him or leave him. I think that maybe you should ask him to go to some conseling by himself first. he might be too embaressed to let you know all the reseaons and may be able to open up to someone or he just might need some viagra. have you tried to watch sex video's with him to see if he can get aroused?

Can't resist a woman with a very sexy body!
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Leona
Leona Answered:

You need to know that he is having sex with prostitutes.  Most men who don't desire their mates it's because of the cheap crack whores out there now.  They are dirt cheap.

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jessicca Answered:

 


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