Discuss OronD's answer to: Husband so selfish he wants to leave and go north. I am paralyzed and he wants to leave me behind

Sorry but you choosed the wrong man and he has no heart no respect, no morals, no responsibility, no love, no care, no sympathy to you or your condition.   But it's a free country and he can do whatever he wants.  The best advise I can give you is:  Take a good attorney to make sure you'll get all your rights.  G-d bless.