Husband so selfish he wants to leave and go north. I am paralyzed and he wants to leave me behind

I'm sorry. Truly. Some asshole men just cannot deal with the situation you're in. I don't know any advice to give you. I can only say I'm sorry. I wish I could tell you something good.

Sorry but you choosed the wrong man and he has no heart no respect, no morals, no responsibility, no love, no care, no sympathy to you or your condition.   But it's a free country and he can do whatever he wants.  The best advise I can give you is:  Take a good attorney to make sure you'll get all your rights.  G-d bless. 

Cypresslady, Did your husband and you marry before you were paralyzed?   How many years have you been paralyzed?  How many years have you been married?

Did he give you any hint that he wanted to end the marriage?

Is he simply going North for a weekend to be with the guys?

There has to be more to your question than simply that your husband wants to go North and not take you along.  Can you tell me a little bit more about your relationship please?