how do I get my wife's family to accept me again after the affair?

Ask for reasons and then decide.

I do not ask for someone to love me and if they do then I expect them to be faithful. If they are not then they don't love or want me anymore so if a man I'd have her pack her bags and let the door bust her in her rump that she used for the humping. If a woman I pack my bags and leave. Don't want ...

if she is not afraid of u and sex or anybody regarding sex with u,and if she is attracted to u,and if u know how to make a foreplay for half an hour at least,then u will not need any creams. otherwise use a lubricant that u buy in farmacies

Be realistic. Straying one time is aberational (out of character, not his normal behavior). That's totally different from an "affair" which is an ongoing sexual relationship with someone other than spouse if done without their knowledge, consent/approval. Many reasons why all you near-perfect ...

Well, there's obviously something going on or she wouldn't be so upset and down. Rape, as bad as it is to think about, does happen, even in the best of facilities. But if that is what's happening, it should be dealt with by authorities. I can't imagine your parents could hear something like that ...

I'd say look in the mirror. Ask himself why. Ask HER why.. and be quiet and listen to the answer... then put the answer inside himself. With some luck, he just might see the obvious and work hard to make himself a better person using the time he has inside. Maybe.. just maybe.. he'll earn the ...