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I have a very high sex drive. How can I get the guy I'm dating to want to have sex as often as I do without seeming desperate or needy?

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I would just tell the guy you're dating that you have a high sex drive and you hope he won't mind. But I'd be totally shocked that the guy would have any problems with you wanting to have lots of sex. In fact, my only experience has been when a guy wants to have sex more often than I do. I guess I never thought it could be the other way around. I say enjoy it! Wink

Love your life as you only get one.

Sex drive is a crucial issue in a relationship, and can lead to very big problems later. And much unhappiness. Typically, as in your case, one member of the couple is well aware of the partner's lower sex drive. The relationship continues, often in the futile hope that the problem sex drive will sort itself out, magically. "Because he is a man, and men always want sex". Not always true! Also, the one with the higher drive can often be reluctant to talk about it, in fear of being seen as a "sex maniac", and for making sex "too important" in the relationship. Talk about it now! Either reach a compromise, or you may have to consider the distinct possibility that the coupling is not meant for the long term.

You should tell him how you feel and be honest. There isn't any way around it if you want it to get serious. By the way, this sounds like a guys dream come true!!!

You might want to experiement with seeing what puts your mate in the mood to have sex more often. if you push the right buttons you might find he will be more apt to have sex more often. You could always play with toys more often to try to substitue for the sex you are not getting.and by the way whats your number? just kidding

Can't resist a woman with a very sexy body!

find out what turns him on and talk about it.  don't be shy and don't place any limits on him.  you will probably be surprised at what you get out of him-and yourself!  ask him if he has any fantasies and don't be offended if they don't include you.  we all dream of a little extra mind candy every once in a while.  they're just fantasies unless you both agree to explore them together.  then you will build a bond that will lead to a deeper understanding and attraction to one another.  finding out how he wants you to dress has a big impact.  men love the visual aspect of sex.  do or be whatever it takes to make him happy, as long as it doesn't start to harm your relationship and openess about both your fantasies.  two words-role play!!!!  it is a blast especially when you start at a public place and "meet for the first time" and take each other home!  have fun with it!

Never Quit! Never Give Up!

Break up with that fool and let's GET IT ON!  whoop whoop.

"I will eat your children"

Yeah,

I can help you with that high sex drive!

Can't resist a woman with a very sexy body!

well darling ddats not normal @ all u shud go to the doctor and figure out why...becuze u just dont want to have sex with a guy u just started a relationship with ...becuze then the guy wudnt rrespect u @ all...becuze guys are guys and they think totally different from females...u shud control yourself or either go to the doctor...whom u feel comfortable with and explain ur symptoms in wanting to have sex constantly with ur parnter...

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