I am pregnant with my second child. My son is 13. His father and I are divorced; it was a bad marriage and my son was rejected by his father. Since the divorce, his father fades in and out of his ...
At 13, your son is still in the middle of the puberty stage and possibly learning about his own sexuality. My grandson even though much younger (about 3), he was the center of attention until his baby sister came along 2 years later. He wanted to throw his trucks at her in the hospital. I told him (as his Nana) he should love his little sister because she couldn't take care of herself, and he should kiss her and tell her he loves her. Once he did that and Mama had him help her at home getting a diaper for her when she needed changing or getting the towel after a bath, he became more involved in her life. She became his baby to help his Mom and Dad take care of her. Today my grandson is almost 7 and my granddaughter is almost 5 and big brother is now very protective of his little sister.
Your 13 year old son has been rejected in his mind by his father, then his Mom has a new love in her life and now the baby. So he is possibly concerned about where does he stand in this family. Until the baby arrives he should still be center of attention, even going on shopping trips for the baby.
Last suggestion, if you haven't had your baby shower yet, have your husband and son go shopping for your son's gift for the baby shower and let him attend. As long as he is involved in everything about the baby he will become more excited about the arrival.
The Lord bless you all, hope everything works out for your family.