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My spouse snores and has to get up early, so goes to bed at 10:PM. I sleep on the couch, so I can get to sleep. Our child sleeps in the only bedroom downstairs. My spouse doesn't want to have sex upstairs,away from the T.V. & is also uncomfortable having sex in the living room where our child could see &or hear when stepping out of their room. We are lonely & frustrated & have 'dried' up. I suggested an O.T.C. like K.Y. jelly & get nowhere. HELP!

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love2loveu22 Answered:

First and foremost, it's not fair to you that you must sleep on the couch. I would suggest either using ear plugs or if that does not help, going to an ear, nose, and throat doctor as there could be something more serious going on with your husband. Secondly, try to understand where your husband is coming from when it comes to having sex downstairs. The fear of having your child walk out of his bedroom to see you two or even hearing you two can be a major turnoff. I would suggest first dealing with your sleeping arrangements, and once you two are sleeping in the same bed again, worry about how the sex life is going.

Life is lessons in love. No regrets.
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Frank
Frank Answered:

amazing but love2loveu22 took the words right out of my mouth , she is right i know because i snored and it turned out to be sleep apnea

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