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My friend set up a day when me and my crush can meet because my friend talks about how pretty i am and how nice i am. So when i meet hiim i want to make an AWESOME 1st impresion so can you help me? ...

KJ
KJ Answered:

The most important thing is to be yourself!!!   Don't go overboard with the makeup.  He wants to see you and he won't be able to see you under a pile of makeup.  Say his name a lot. People like hearing their name.  Stand up straight!  Wear something you're comfortable in but something that looks nice. Not anything "slutty".   (not if you ever want to meet his family.)  Don't swear!  Good guys don't like a girl with a gutter mouth! If you wear any perfume, go easy with it.  A little goes a long way!

Take it easy, relax as much as you can, have fun and be yourself.  That will make it easier for him to be himself as well.

Good luck and have fun!!

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Smartypntz8 Thinks this answer is Helpful:

Thank you ssoo much for the answer but one more thing:

  When you say don't wear anything slutty, i am going to wear a tube top with a tank top under, is that ok or too revealing

Oh and be HONEST!!!Wink
 
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That sounds great! For the next time you see him.  It's so important that you make a really good, lasting impression right away.  I'm positive you have tons of really cute tops that don't reveal too much.  That aren't too low cut and don't show any of your stomach!

Right from the gate you want to let him know you're a lady!  I'm not saying you should wear a shirt that buttons up to your chin!  Just something that doesn't show too much.

You want to make sure he not only knows you're a lady but that he also knows he has to treat you like the lady you are!!  If he drops the "f bomb", feel free to tell him "I'm not a prude but I'd appreciate it if you'd go easy with the swearing."  Young guys will swear a lot because they think it makes them seem "cool" when it's only disrespecting you!!! Let him know this!

If this is a boy you really like and you want to date for a long time, it's important to put your best foot forward.  A lot of that means teaching him how to treat you! It's best to teach him now! It's difficult to teach them later.   Besides, do this and you really will make an excellent impression.  You'll really stand apart and very high above the other girls!!  Honestly!!!
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