family & relationships, crush for a married woman

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Help me out please. Emotionally destroyed because of a crush on a married woman?

I live with a family (husband, wife and kids) and have a crush on the lady of the house, for the day one. The only change with the passage of time is, I'm losing all my logical barriers to hold this one side crush. She is happy with her husband, at least physically, as far as I understand. They've some financial problems so I spent a lot on her family, may be to get some attention of her. She respect me a lot, but not seem to move forward an inch, wher I wish to take her. Yes I want to have a physical relationship with her, but its not matter of life and death for me. I want her to be more open with me, but she has her limits. The worst problem is I'm unable to throw all this rubbish out of my mind. I'm unable to focus on me, on my work, even on my family (in another area). Any logical reason is unable to get me out of it. She respect me a lot so I don't even want to grab her or molest her which I've plenty of chances. Even not have the courage to talk to her, in fear of losing my face in front of her and her husband. Don't know what to do...

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LindaRuth Answered:

Move out of their house. Get your own apartment. Forget about her and date an available woman.

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Lyn Powell Answered:

DEFINITELY move out. Get another job. Go back home to your own family. You have already crossed a line -- WHY are you spending your money on them??

She's MARRIED. With CHILDREN. Hopefully she has more sense than to destroy her family by having an affair with the live-in help.

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charlie2911 Answered:

You are bad for this family -no matter what excuses you make ! If you have any self respect, or true good feelings for them - LEAVE NOW !

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What is truth -

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~Jada~ Answered:

Look, this is a typical case of wanting what you cannot have. She is married with children and doesn't want or need you interferring in her marriage.

You've already lost face as far as I can see. Believe it or not, there are challenging women in the world who are not married or otherwise taken. Find one of those and leave this lady, her marriage, and her children alone.

Take the advice you've been given here...pack a bag, thank the family for their hospitality, and get on with your life somewhere where you will be welcome. If this husband catches on to your wicked ways, it's going to get ugly...really ugly. On top of that, he may begin to question what his wife has done to cause you to feel this way toward her.

She is an innocent victim here. A victim of your selfishness. Make other living arrangement immediately and move on without looking back. There's nothing back there for you. Got it?

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One day I said, 'I will go out & look for my enemies' and on that day I found no friends. The next day I said, 'I will go out & look for my friends' & on that day I found no enemies. ~YeddaHeads~

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