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Help me to help myself to accept the things that i cannot change and begin the change that will be right for me the very next time around?

i,m  currently married but my wife have stated that she is miserable and very disappointed in the way things have tooken a turn for the worst in our marriage and she simply wants to seperate she says and want to get her own place and i remain here how can i prepare my heart for this disaster that i will soon encounter? how can someone begin the healing process of lossing someone that you,ve loved and care for as much as you possibly could and still remain at a lost of despair?

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Nancy Payne Lewis, MA
Nancy Payne Lewis, MA Answered:

Hi Charleson - 

I am sorry that you are having to go through this.  I know that divorce can be a very difficult and painful fact to face, especially if you don't want it.  

The healing process takes time - and it is difficult to do alone.  I don't know what your situation is, but I would suggest that you find someone with whom you can talk.  Someone who can be neutral is best - a therapist or  counselor, or your minister/priest.  Your wife's reason for wanting a divorce may have little to do with you, or it might have a lot to do with you.  Have you suggested that you and she try couples counseling?  If you have and she says "no" or "it's too late for that", then I suggest that you find someone to help YOU.  

Hang in there - you will get through this.

Best

 

Nancdy

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