Discuss n's answer to: I dont know what i want.i have a bf who loves me ...

And that's the truth Bonestructure, the absolute truth.  Others may look at the couple and say, "What on earth does he/she see in her/him?"    But the two of them see only the good and the beautiful.   If you've got a spouse or friend who does not think you are the cat's meow, then you'll never make it through the tough times.  That's what I think.