Posted by sofie 3 years ago In:

relationships

Should I move on? Was I too harsh?

I'm the girl who wrote this a few days ago...http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…

Well, he did respond that he was going to email me that night. bHe didn't, and said he fell asleep early, but did the next night. Here's what he said:

It's 8:46 and I just got home. Had to help Terry out because he screwed up his back.

I do care about you but I don't know if a relationship right now would work out. I don't think we should even think about a relationship with each other until you move up here. Even then I don't know if it would work. Just do what you feel in your heart. If you would rather live in the city then do that and if we were meant to be together then it will happen. If you moved up here so we could be together and we didn't work out then you wouldn't be happy. You are an impatient person and that is really starting to drive me crazy.

I was upset and responded with this:

First of all, I am not an impatient person. You usually respond in a reasonable amount of time or tell me you're busy or something. You didn't do that at all and it made me think you were avoiding me. It was hurtful and maybe made me a little crazy with the texting. I won't text you ever again and already deleted you from my phone.

Thanks for making me feel like a piece of **** for sending you for giving a damn. You have your faults too, but I'm not mean enough to list them all.

He never responded. I then sent him a text asking if we could put it behind us since we both said stupid things....that was 3 days ago and no response.

What should I do? Do you think he'll ever contact me again? We've known each other for years...

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rocco 70 Answered:

I think you both have to grow up more, your adults, and shouldn't be acting like you both are, if this man loved you he wouldn't have answered so in such a negitive manner, he's telling you no matter what you do it's probably not ever going to work out, if you move to where he wanted to move to, he's telling you it may not work out anyway, when ever you had words between each other, his first retort will be i told you it wouldn't work out, now what, move back, i would stay where you are and find love there !!!

But whatever you decide, good luck, i hope it works out for you !!

Sincerly

Rocco

Posted 3 years ago

I'm a one woman man seeking a one man women to partner with for the rest of our live's, a fifty fifty relationship, someone who loves sincerly and lasting, someone who can accept an apolagy as well as give one, silent treatment, women are not excepted, vindictive woman are frowned on been there done that, never again in my lifetime will i seek a relationship with a women who is always right in her mind, no matter how wrong she is, i'm looking for an equal relationship, not a dictatorship, if your out there we may have something going already.