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When a guy says lets just see what happens?

I have been dating a guy for about one month now and he asked me what I wanted. Whether I was happy to just see what happens. what does this mean when a guy just wants to see what happens. how can i be sure hes not just using me..

 

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Bonestructure
Bonestructure Answered:

Well, i would think that he doesn't know yet how he feels about you and wants to takes his time and see what develops.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.
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Angelica
Angelica Answered:

You can't be sure, unless you do a lot of serious analyzing.  Believe it or not, this happened to me when I was at the one-month point, and now we're at six months almost and everything's basically OK.  You haev to think about how he's treating you--does he call you?  Does he want more from you than just a booty call?  Does he care about your feelings, and if you're working, what kind of a day you're having?  If you said yes to anything I just mentioned, he probably cares about you but is commitment shy.  I know the feeling!!!!  Hang in there and wait--that's all you can do, especially if you're in love like I am.  You know what they say--you can't hurry love--you just have to wait--best of luck to you and wish me the same!Tongue out

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lovedoctor71
lovedoctor71 Answered:

I cannot tell you if he's using you, but I can tell you that before you become intimate with him, you should know where you stand. I say this because I hear about too many young women who complain that they gave so much in a relationship only to get nothing in return. Know where you stand before you give a piece of yourself to him, that's the best way not to get used. Good luck and I hope things work out for the best.

You can never step in the same river twice.
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