What should i do if a guy wants to have a threesome, but the third guy isn't my type and is too old for me? OK, so i met this guy on a dating site; I will call him J for the sake of the question. He ...
Stick to your guns. If it's not something you want and are not comfortable with, you shouldn't be pushed into it. Some gay men are comfortable with multiple partners, some aren't. It sounds to me that you're looking for a stable situation, and your partner isn't. It happens. In the end, you have to do what's best for you.