My grandmother (adoptive mother) psychologically terrorized and emotionally abused me as a child, financially controlled me as an adult, and is now harrassing/stalking me as I near 32 years of age ...
Pack your things and move to another state. Change your phone number and end relationships with family. You have the right to privacy and to feel free to do as you please.
I cannot move away. I own a home that I cannot sell, and do not wish to sell. I have a young child that I have sole custody of after the woman in question contributed to the end of my marriage.
I block her number via my cell provider, but she buys pre-paid phones to circumvent that.
Why am I supposed to run away from an 80-something year old woman, again?
thanks for your response. I'm not griping at you :)
Sorry to hear your still tied to all those roadblocks.... The only other thing I might suggest is that you lean on some good friends to spend time with so life isn't a big hassle. There are generations between you and your grandmother and if you must stay in your situation then do try being kind to yourself.
Good Luck!