My grandmother (adoptive mother) psychologically terrorized and emotionally abused me as a child, financially controlled me as an adult, and is now harrassing/stalking me as I near 32 years of age. How can I get away from a woman who calls me up to 150 times a day, and 20 times a day on average? If I don't answer the phone, she drives half and hour to my home and blocks my car in my driveway and bangs on my door for 20 minutes at a time. Then she will drive away only to do the same thing again about 15 minutes later.
She has told all of the family some sort of lie about me. I haven't seen them for at least 16 years. I don't get calls or presents on my birthday or during the holidays. I asked the one family member who will talk to me, but she declined a visit from me citing an unwillingness to upset family members. I've been threatened with legal action by the family members if any call that I make is followed by medical problems by my diabetic great-aunt in her mid-80's who suffers from congestive heart failure.
My biological father has told me that my mother (daughter of the woman I am complaining about) died as a result of financial abuse. I was subjected to the exact same scenario a decade after his disclosure and believe his story 100%
I have no idea what to do to free myself of this woman.