Here's something I want to throw out for someone to ponder, If a person has been divorced for a few years and the one parent that has custody of the two children both being under ten years of age ...
I am guessing you are the father and the mother is keeping the children away?
It is very common in divorce especially bitter ones. PAS parental alienation syndrome One parent trys to keep kids away or poison them against the other
You should speak to a lawyer You should have visitation, communication ect
Unfortantly my husband is in this kind of a situation due to a divorce from a very bitter bipolar x wife. Sometimes when someone has nothing in their life they feel powerful controlling children
Unfortunate for the children