How can you get the girl you like to like you back?

There is this girl I like alot but she quit doesn't know if she likes this other guy so I really don't want to lose her. If anyone can help me please send sugestions.

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Let her know how you feel. There is no way to know how she feels unless you ask her. Perhaps start out easy and make efforts to treat her special so that she can see for herself how much you care. If she does not get the hint after some big efforts, then have a talk with her. The worst that could happen is that she would only want to remain friends. If this is the case then at least you will know and be able to stop torturing yourself with not knowing. There is always the possibility of a friendship eventually developing into something more, so give it time. Good luck.

by being yourself. hopefully you are a kind and caring person, that should shine through if you are. show sincere interest in her likes, don't be fake. don't lie. don't over do it. you honestly can not "make" someone like you. if it feels like work, you need to move on.

ok yo im not good with advice but i have a question so like theres this girl at my school that ive liked for a long time we have small chats here and there and we were always just more like friends though but anyway she would always asked me who do u like and i used to like somebody else and i told her that it was the other girl (her friend) and i also told here there was another person but i wouldent tell her who so 1 year later (this happend yesterday) i told her ide tell her after school she had it on her mind all day i could tell but anyway i said that it was her and she didnt say anything (this was on MSN) so i said what do u think and she said its cewl and then later i got my friend to go on msn to see if she likes me she said no but hes still my freind so whta can i do to get this girl to go out with me????? please respond

ty everyone by the way for helping me.


This is a reasponse to JoshDragos.
All i can say is that you told her on msn kinda a downside to telling a girl that you like her.
Also what nightmajic said:

by being yourself. hopefully you are a kind and caring person, that should shine through if you are. show sincere interest in her likes, don't be fake. don't lie. don't over do it. you honestly can not "make" someone like you. if it feels like work, you need to move on.

That's pretty much what you got to do.

try to get her attention and be yourself. :)

I've learned that sometimes life and love don't cooperate. Like I was going out with this girl and I dumped her. I liked this other girl last year but I was afraid to ask her out. Now, I asked her out. After long consideration, she said yes. We went out for a couple of hours and while we were talking, I realized that she was uncomfortable with the whole "going out" thing. There are three things in the world I hate most. One, making people wait or made being wait myself. Two, pushing people to doing something they don't want to. Three, not thinking ahead. Following rule number 2, she and I had a whole conversation. So in the end, I just said "Okay. Don't consider me your boyfriend, but more of a special, cool friend." So now we're not bf/gf anymore, but we are still really good friends. Sure, I sometimes wish that fate allowed us to be bf/gf but what can you do? If you really like the other person, do what is best for them. So think about it. Sometimes, love just complicates everything. Friendship is sometimes the better way.

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