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Is getting back with an ex a bad idea?

Is it worth it to get back together with someone that didn't want you in the first place? If a breakup occurs isn't it inevitable that you will arrive back at the same place in time?

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cagek
cagek Answered:

For my experience, it'a a bad idea!!!

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ddavel544
ddavel544 Answered:

Rarely ever works....unless ground rules are established to prevent a replay of the original break up ...But people don't like to follow 'rules' it is in their nature to revolt against rules. So prepare for a repeat of what was before.

What?....Who?...Me?... .....What'd I do?..... Political correctness is a doctrine, fostered by a delusional, illogical minority, and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media, which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a piece of crap by the clean end.
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Sparky's Mom
Sparky's Mom Answered:

inquisitiveone, I agree with cage and Dave.  The first time you get into an argument, you will be yelling at each other:  What did you have to come back for?  Always move forward, never backward.  Your ex is an ex for a good reason.  If you get back together, that same reason is sure to return.

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abeey
abeey Answered:

yep, let it go

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mamamiya
mamamiya Answered:

Yeah, i did the silly things before and finally we couldnt make it out. Then i drove a conclusion that you have to move forward and start brand new life with a person who can give all heart to you intead go back to one who has already decided to end up with u once.

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Adelaine Watson
Adelaine Watson Answered:

Wrong move. If you have experienced a break up, just remember two things the guy doesn't love you anymore or the guy was only playing with you. So the best thing to do after the break up is to find another guy that will respect and love you for who you are.

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Equus
Equus Answered:

Remember they are an X for a reason or perhaps several reasons.

This rarely works .  The problems that caused the break up are still there and have not been addressed .   I'd stay clear and not set yourself up for more of the same. Pain , misery and sorrow .  Live in the future not the past .

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dantasanta
dantasanta Answered:

Yes, it is a bad idea, I had a boyfriend I just broke up with recently and trust me there are guys that are really annoying and I would never say this to their faces. The reason getting back with your ex is a bad idea is because you probably will findout he or she has a lot of bad habits you didn't realize they had and then you will be tempted to them to stop it and then when you tell them to stop one of their habits they will act like you are being mean, when you aren't, but a few other reasons this is a bad idea is because it is important to have some alone time, and it is also important to experiment with different girlfriends and boyfriends as long as you actually like or love whoever you are dating and you aren't using them, I am actually not sure, if experiment would be the right word in the sentence I wrote, hmmm......... maybe if someone votes my answer, as helpful then they can tell me if the word sounds right to them I realize there are other answers to so, it's ok if you decide my answer wasn't helpful.

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