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Okay so I have this friend, He wants me, The problem is lets just say he's too old for me and he's a friend of a friend, I hung out with him and all he tried to do was get down my pants. He kissed me ...

JadeKaz Answered:

It sounds like this guy, while he may say he wants a relationship, is looking to take your V-card. If you aren't in love with him and don't trust him with handling the responsibility of having taken your viriginity, I wouldn't recommend going through with it. If you like him, go ahead and date him, but set boundaries. Let him know that you are not ready to have sex and if/when the time comes that you are ready, if you and he are still together, you will tell him. If he doesn't like that response, I'd tell him to get lost, as he's not really into (and it would mean he's really only about the 'chase and conquer' of sleeping with a virgin). I hope this answers your question. Also, if you have any other questions, let me know. I'm a good listener and have been told that I give pretty good advice.

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Don't follow in my footsteps, I run into walls. =)

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The_only_emo_girl Thinks this answer is Helpful:

Okay Thank you! He said he barely gets girlfriends and barely gets laid. Do you think I should believe him or not? I'd hate it if I believed something he said and went further then I meant to and end up regreating it. He knows I'm afraid of the subject of sex and he did all that. I dont like him that way though, Is there any easy way to tell him?

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Don't talk around the subject. Tell him straight out that you are not interested in him that way and you while you would like to stay friends, if he cannot be 'just friends,' then your friendship will have to end. Honesty is the best policy, that's my philosophy and it seems to work well for me.