I have reciently descovered that my 14 year old son is masterbating. Twice I have walked into his bedroom to finde him watching one of my pornographic DVD's. Im not too sure what to do, I have moved my DVD's into my garrage where he cannot get to them but would like to talk to him about this, also I am woundering if I should turn a bline eye to him watching my DVD's, I know as a 14 year old that I used to 'use' my fathers porn stash, but I think that maybe 14 is too young? But on the other hand if he is watching my DVD's I know what he is watching, whereas if I didnt allow him access he could be watching anything. Im at logger heads as to what to do, any advice would be greatly helpfull. Lewis
knocking would help. unless you wanna watch your little man yank his crank. then you should seek some help(for yourself). He is 14 and it feels good, he is doing a fine job. Ask yourself this question. "Why did (You) buy the porn" My guess is it wasn't for the artisic exploration of your inner soul. (snickering)
Lewis i am 17 my self. i may not yet be an adult but from my experince. i got cut off from 1 stash i went 2 the books pics. wherre can i stash them and than online hell i think ur best bet is 2 leave him some vid's or pic's what ever u profer. but put something thats not 2 well xxx rated lol. but than agian i mean u gotta pick whuld you rather. let him watch what u give him and 2 make shure its like just a pair of tits. or let him watch stuff like full on shit. dicks hanging out sucking pussy's evewhere shit like that but i think mabby u shuld than he wont end up as mest up as i am. i do have alot of issues. my self but i truly think thats ur best. bet. dont let him know ur leting him do it but have a bit of a blind eye. and atleast you can rest ezy knowing he is watching what u give him ur in controll of it. but at the same time his not ganna be stupid. and his ganna accept that as i did and meenny arthers ppl cut us off we went 2 diffrent sources' and some of them ended up haveing kids and there from 16-22 years old. but yea thats the best advise i can give you hope some of this helps. dont take me word for word but it might help you out a lil bit with some of the info in this. let me know if it helps.
Really. The above post is really uneeded. I am an 18 year old male, who lived with a very conservative family. I was never shown or taught anything. I went onto the internet to discover everything. I think that you should talk to him about masterbation. ALL OF IT!! You may even go as far as to teach him a few things. Ask him if he has any questions. Better for him to learn from his father someone he trusts, than the internet.
I do not see anything wrong with itm my dad caught me at 13, And I am greatful,I did not know what to do to get the white stuff after a talk my Dad explained everything and told me he still did it, So being curiois I ask him to teach me, Nothing happen between us, But Dad got a woody like me and he showed her how to use my hand and after a few minutes Dad got his and then I findly got mine, Dad told me when ever I wanted to come to him so we could do it together and not get caught, I did it with my Dad till I was 19 nothing ever happen between us, But I sure an glad he showed me at 13
even today at 35 we have did it together its a close bond between father and son
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