Discuss Abbigail Stowell's answer to: How to send congrats to ex spouse on his remarriage

With all due respect, I don't think sending the ex a letter shortly after their marriage is very smart!  It will only cause conflict because his new wife does not want to hear from the ex-wife and would not want you communicating with him.  Better not to send anything!  They don't need your "congratulations" to be happy.