We love each other very much, but he got married ...

Well, your sister is a manipulative bitch who got exactly what she wanted by pretending to commit suicide. Yes, I said pretend, because that was exactly what she was doing. She must really hate you to do so much to hurt you. But there's not a hell of a lot to do about it at this point unless he gets a divorce.

At first I just glamsped at your question and I was going to suggest that family comes first and so there is many other men in this world but once reading this your sister honestly has no respect for you I sincerely know that she doesn't know what a sister is . He who loves you should divorce her or you guys can set her up with someone set her up..? My other suggestion would be to let him go I know you love him but sometimes you have to sacrifice the things you love

Never forget that Blood is thicker than water!  She is your sister, and if you betray her by carrying on with her HUSBAND, that is a trust that can never be rebuilt and will most likely cost you a sister!  Ask yourself, is this man worth losing your sister over????  NOOOOOO!  Move on, dear!  He just wants to inflate his ego by having "two sisters" at his beck and call!  He will be manipulating both of you, and cheating on both of you if you allow him to. 

There are millions of other men out there!  Do not settle for this man's games.  Move on and find a nice man who will be faithful TO YOU!  P.S. No man with any ball$ would marry anyone just because "she attempted suicide". He must have loved her, but he also had the HOTS for you and still does.  Don't be flattered by that.  He's a DOG!  Honey, take the high road and let him know you're no longer available and that you will not betray your sister's trust.

I also don't believe this mans line of horse manure and I suggest you stop believing him as well .  How old are you , your sister and this man . Reason I ask and I quote you  "  We love each other very much, but he got married to my sister because she also liked him  " ...   Liked him ????  That statement makes you sound quite young .  Do we have a case of you being flattered by an older man who just happens to be your brother in law ?

NO MAN MARRIES SOMEONE  under these conditions. He is swine and you are rolling around in the swine lot with him .   Allow your self respect to kick in and end this .  Where is your respect for your Sister ? Where is your respect for commitment ?  Believe me this poor excuse of a man has no respect for you or his wife , your sister .  He is worried about what people will think if he files for divorce but not what they will think about him commiting infidelity with you .   This guy is full of it , in my opinion .

There's an old saying ... If they will do it with you , they will do it to you .

Here's your solution ... End this ... like yesterday !

I can only hope that your sister also sees what a low life she as married.

She deserves better .

You should talk with your sister. Or if it does not work then seek a help from your mother. Your sister, threatening to commit suicide is really not in her right mind. She is so possessive that even ending her life makes her think that it is the only solution to have that man. Talk also to that man after. If he really loves you, then he will think of a better way rather than getting trapped in a one-sided love with your sister. You can find tips about relationship advice for women.

wow, so i think u should communicate with ur sister, and persuade her and thus will change the situation, anyhiow, wish u happy

i would suggest that while he is still her husband he get her counseling and then once it is known by others that she has problems and is capable of harm to herself he could divorce her.  it's most important that you get her some help, because she clearly is a hazard and even though she did you wrong, it's not right to just up and run off with him. i mean, he did fall into the trap of marrying her, so it's responsibility to help her get help before running off.

Well he is married already. So its no possible to marry you again, better try to avid him and love someone else.