If you are trying to figure out how to deal with your ex boyfriend because he will not leave you alone then you must not lead him on. If you keep talking to him or respond to him in any way then you are giving him "ATTENTION" and this is what he wants. If he gets the attention he wants then he will not leave you alone.
If he continues to bother you then this becomes harassment. If it gets to this lever were he is calling you all the time and stalking you then you are going to have to report this to the police or someone with authority. If he does not leave you alone when you tell him then i am sure he will if someone else tells him.
Thank you for your feed back. I have an order of protection, his and his girlfriends, my stalking relatives, his relatives, his female and male friends, certain corrupt law enforcement, his corrupt court appointed lawyer, the family court judge (corrupted) caseworkers, socialworkers, tenants, landlord and employees, certain races, religious groups, etc. are aiding and betting. every where I go he has sex with the females then tell them to f__K me for up him. He manipulated males to f__k me for for him too. WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT THIS INSANE GROUP OF PEOPLE? HELP!