My mom talks badly about me on the phone with her ...

Hello Jenner,

If you believe in God pray for your mother and your self and always respect your mother and yourself because you do not have but one mother. If things really get bad for you mother will always be there for you. Try not to lose your relationship with your mother. Maybe you should give your mother a little space so both of you can   calm down. After  both of you calm down have a mom and daughter day.  Takeyour mom shopping and then after you finish shopping, take your mom out to dinner and talk about good things. Do this every now and then. Watch the smiles that comes over her face and watch her additude change.

When and if you hear your mother talking bad about you on the phone to her friends, go up to your mother and give her a hug and a kiss on her jaw and tell your mother I love you no matter what. I am the mother of 7 girls and 2 boys.

It makes me feel good when they take me shopping or out to dinner and sometimes they send me out to dinner. I do the same for them sometime.

Respectfully.

Sylvia Scott Gibson

CJ, I like what Sylviagibson53 said, especially the part where you hug and kiss her. It's like attacking the negative with a positive. I hope things get better. Be blessed.