My wife's sister is always stating how her kids ...

My wife's sister is always stating how her kids love me and want to be around me. She also takes up for me when ever anyone puts me down or my wife and i have an argument. Do you think that my sister in law has a interest in me. I am hoping not because I love my wife. i get mixed reactions from my sister in law. Please help with an answer. I am hoping that she is only being friendly.  

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Hi Ninja,
It depends how she says it and what exactly the situation are.  It can be that she is interested but on the other hand she might only like you as a brother in law and appreciate you as a person.....  No way that a foriegner (who is not involved intimately and knows all details) will be able to give you a proper responsible answer.  Please don't jump to quick conclusions.
Best regards,

Love is the battery of life....

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Your sister in law may or may not be interested in you.How do you feel when she is around?It must be bothering you or you would not ask this question.I think I would throw some hints to your sister in law to let her know you are happy and would not be interested in another woman.Hopefully she will take the hint and leave it at that.This could cause problems if she is or isn't.Be real carefull how you handle this.Good luck

It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

I think your sister in law is being nice and trying to be a good sister in law.

If she was trying to come in between your wife and you she would be

putting you down. Not lifting you up.

 

About that Sister-in-law!

Yes, of course, she has an interest in you. But what is more important in your story is that your wife - of course your wife knows her sister better than you - has not been involved. I would think that it is up to your wife to set your sister-in-law straight.

It is quite possible that there has been friction between the two sisters for a long time. But, as far as you are concerned, you need to discuss this matter with your wife and let her deal with her sister.

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dude dont be like tht duh she is why else would she be doing all this wat she wants to be friends i dnt think so omg u need to tell her straight forward i am not interested and if she says dude i am not either just walk away wat have u got to loss if she tells ur wife well guess wat tell her she was coming on to u or u were getting mixed signels who cares GO FOR IT!!!

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