You cannot "make" ANYONE "love" you. And if it's a first cousin, you probably shouldn't even try!
Mo....time to move on out dat trailer...see dem two kids on da right ...dats what yo kids will look like ....
Mohammed, I am sorry you find my answer to be 'Not Helpful.' The reason I said you should not try to "make" your cousin love you is because people who are closely related (siblings, progeny, first cousins) share similar genetic coding.
This means that any genetic conditions which might manifest themselves in a negative fashion (hemophilia, dwarfism, etcetera) are more likely to occur in people who come from the same specific gene pool. There is also an increased risk of birth defects as well as a higher risk of mental retardation.
Additionally, in some areas it may even still be against the law for you to marry a relative (a first cousin usually counts as a relative).
In short, you might want to rethink things just a bit.
Yes I agree. You can make someone love you but you can make yourself someone that can be love. And I think your Muslim? I think marrying closely related to you seemed to be okay in your religion. Right?
Hey you have lost your mind. R u crazy ??????
I'm not sure what kind of love you're talking about- Is it romantic love or familial love? If your talking about romantic love-(this is my opinion) I think cousins are too closely related to explore that without there being repercussions of some nature. I believe there are very legitimate reasons for this. while some people have "crushes" on cousins- it is a bad idea. Let it go.
If it's a love that is physical and emotional then I would plead with you not to go down that road. The obvious thing would be genetics and the fact that your children have a high probability to have a deformity, and Im sure you wouldn't want to put that on a baby especially if you knew the consequences before hand. Besides that, Cousins should be the ones that you can tell things to and keep secrets and look out for. Kinda like having a sibling without having the aggravation of the sibling. Putting your heart into a relationship that would be looked down on from family and friends is like agreeing to run up hill backwards. Then whatever stresses you encounter will end up dividing your family, It will come to that. If you want your cousin to love you like a cousin, Just be who you are, And he/she will love you, You can choose your friends, but you cant choose your family. Good luck to you, Try and look at what your decision will cost you, in every way. Good luck Susan H-K MI
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