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Hi Jada,ITs Bonnie Two weeks ago my x boyfriend called and asked to talk with me.I said you have a new girlfriend.he said is that all u do is think i **** all day long.I replyed Are you calling to say ...

~Jada~ Answered:

Bonnie that's hard to answer because you won't like my answer. The truth is that the only thing that will fill this void is time. If you want out of this relationship you must give yourself time to heal and go all the way through that process. It isn't going to feel better any time soon but you will feel better in time. In the meantime, if you decide to talk with him.... do NOT have sex with him! If he wants more than that from you, make him show you what it is that he does want. Otherwise, I'm afraid you are making things too easy for him and you are the one getting hurt.
Best wishes,
Jada

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One day I said, 'I will go out & look for my enemies' and on that day I found no friends. The next day I said, 'I will go out & look for my friends' & on that day I found no enemies. ~YeddaHeads~

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Bon Bon Thinks this answer is Helpful:

Otay,the last two times we were together.he didnt want sex.I did because my problem is my X husband of 26 yrs was and is my best friend.But after my son he would not touch me.For 12 years.I didnt have a man to be with.I tryed every thing.Nothing worked.So its very hard for my head to understand.I have been with 3 men.MY boyfriend being the best lover i ever had..not the best friend.my x husband the best friend i will ever have.N i am his best friend.I feel cheated i want sex.MY x husban knows that the only reason im not with him is because he willnot hold me.or sleep in the same room as me.I am stuck!!!!! my life has been to try and prove my woman hood.My x husband says its him.something from a abusise father.HE was never raped.and he says he would rather me find someone else.Because he just cant.HE works 60 hrs a week.and would give me anything in this world.So with this kind of marrage i have lost all myself respect.Taken shit for my boyfriend.Running to him.Ive gone to therapy for 9 years.IVE cryed a million tears.im crying now.I had a breck down.And look were i am.Why is this my life.My boyfriend plays games.I think he does love me.But he likes the chase better.when its gd his board.i feel if i stop dateing.i will swallo my pride and woman hood n be with my x husband.and for all how see this.i know sex is not everything.But when u are turned down year after year.It messes with your head.I go to the gym.i look gd.i am a real woman i love lace makeup heels.As la de da da comes.Men are very attracked to me...JUST MY BEST FRIEND.MY X HUSBAND......... Stuck 4 life.........