Hi, i am out of my country. i got ...

we cannot satisfy one and all. be good to them if they are good to you, ignore if they show negative attitude. you lead your life happy and support your family to keep your house surrounding happy .this will keep your mind in peace. do not approach people who keeps you in depression. forget that they are existing. just see to even more better and bright future. I know how it pains, me too has gone through this pain. i was left all alone. now i have learn to live happy without them. be cool. you will go through many thinks like that. just avoid the bad things that enters in your life . Don't give way to people who makes you sad. be positive and move further to make your home even more happier and look ahead in life. it is you who will lead your family so you be cheerful and happy. you give no importance to your relatives and cousins . be practicle and diplomat with them.

I believe the most important thing is the commitment the 2 of you made to each other & the love you share/ There are so many people out there who serch for that "real love" & can't  find it, so they mecombe jealose & envious & cant stand the thought of a couple they know being happy. So, out of there misory, they do there best to ruin that relationship that they  are so envious of. Don't let others interfer with something precious because if u do, you may never get that opertunity again. Go with your heart-9 times out of 10 your heart is spot on. Take care. keep me informed.

we definitely cannot please everybody. your relatives should be happy for you but instead they are wishing they are in your place instead. this can be depressing but there are really certain people who are envious of the good things that happen to others. try not to think much about it to avoid getting depressed even more. instead be happy with the blessings that you are experiencing right now. if i were you, ignore them for now. in the long run they will realize that what they are doing is just not right.

"married my husband is in good position" congratulations for that. well, as they say we cant please everybody. maybe you didn't handle the situation well. they will be happy for you, by then. "Always protect yourself by having conversations with them where others are present, write email or record conversations" nice idea you got Masterflagger. :)

I had experienced that. And I can say we cannot do anything about it. We cannot please everybody. All we need to do is to just pray from them and forgive them.

I think that your own self-worth, confidence level and self-esteem need to come into play here. We leave our family for the unity of becoming one with our mate. Do you feel confident that he has your best interest at heart? Are you in love, happily married and content in your new environment? Ask yourself why you allow their opinions to dictate your feelings? I do not know you, but if your happy, then I am happy for you.

SonesYedda