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Ex Husband pushing to be friends with his new bed partner.

My ex husband is involved with his third love of his life since he forced me out of our home.  I was with him for four and a half years.  He seems to want to force me to care about this new woman. We are both in our 50's and she is in her 20's..I have children older than this girl he is with now. Why would he ask me to drop by and bring her with him?  This does not make any sense at all. 

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OronD
OronD Answered:

Hi Patty, ---------- Sorry, but you don't have to do whatever he is asking. Please remember that you jave your pride an dignity. Learn to say "NO". By this request he shows no respect to you. He can't spit on you and asking you to ignore it..... (sorry for the rude example ! I appologize, but that is what occours to my mind). --------- Best regards,

Love is the battery of life....
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lovelyady
lovelyady Answered:

Hi Patty... sorry your marriage took such turn. But nevertheless as OronD said, you do not have to let him step on your more than he has already done. You must have a strong will power to say NO when you have to. You cant always please those around you at your detriment.

Tk care.

"Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command." <a href="" rel="nofollow" cl="http://www.quotationspage.com/quotes/Alan_Watts/" class="comlink">Alan Watts</a>
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NannyNell
NannyNell Answered:

Screw that noise.  Tell him to step off!

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Clarice
Clarice Answered:

Hello. I truly empathize with your situation, as I too am 50 and have an ex-husband who cohabits with a 20-something young woman. I am somewhat of an expert by now regarding the subject of the "mid-life" man and he brings her around because he seeks your validation and approval. You hold a place of honor and offer comfort to him in his odd world.  Think of it as a complement and politely decline, if it is a nuisance for you. It is a ridiculous relationship and this shall pass- she is a trifle in his life, where you are not. Stay cordial and let it run its course. Focus on yourself and your children and where they are in their lives. That is the important stuff- not his trifling relationship.

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