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kjhoman Asked About 'How to Know if Your Ex Wants You Back After a Break Up'

Me and my ex gf were together for over 3 and 1/2 ...

Me and my ex gf were together for over 3 and 1/2 years. We have had a bumpy relaionship and split up a few times but only for either a day to 4 days. We have had are share of stupid arguments. Well one month ago today, she broke up with me telling me she lost interest with the relationship. I was crushed. I did what i was told not to do and that was call her everyday, bombard her with emails, texting and whatnot. Wellshe made it clear she wanted nothing to do with me and for me to back off. Well starting about a week ago, she startedresponding to my emails. She then started calling me blocked. grant it they were small conversations, but everytime we talked it was good. Then she would bring up something about the past that i did wrong. Then she would ask me why i deserve another chance. So i dont know what she really means. Im really lost. I was her first boyfriend and each others first loves. I cant tell if she is done with me or not. She still goes to my myspace page and looks at it and will coment on my blogs. Is she really over me or is she hiding behind her words and still wants us?

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OronD Answered:

Hi,
I think she is simply hesitating / not sure what she wants, so she leaves all options open. Don't push too much, better be nice and cooperative, let her know how you feel about her, and give her time and space to decide. The other option (highly recomended) is: Discuss it with her, tell her that you want to return and her mixed signals confuse you. Tell her loud and clear that you ask for a 2nd chance. If she really wants you she'll return 2U, else, better forget about her (you can't force her doing it).
Best regards,

Posted 3 years ago
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Love is the battery of life....

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kjhoman Answered:

Im not, it just sucks big time. Like she has always wanted to be with me forever and i did to. Are main problems were my priorities. When she was in college, she would only come into town once a week on the weekends. I would put her off the whole time until she had to go back. Sometimes i wouldnt talk to her for 3 days at a time. But she hung in there wanting meto change. Well i realized what i did wrong and hate myself for it. She thinks that the same stuff will happen in the future but it wont and im so sincere. Im lost

Posted 3 years ago

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kaki Answered:

well i think she still want to be with you but wants you to admit that you did something wrong, but dont give in. dont give in unless you really did something REALLY wrong and havent admited it before. if you feel you did something wrong and you want her back then you should tell her how you feel and make everything better. but also if you guys had a bumpy relationship and all of a sudden she looses interest then she might not be tottally comitted. so do what you feel is right, good luck.