Discuss OronD's answer to: Everytime I love someone, something bad happens ...

1.  Never loose hope.  The sun will shine for you too !. 
2.  The "fact" you mentioned (when you love, something
     bad happens) is not a real fact by a co-insident.  It
     happened, by pure chance, at the same time.   You
     loved your mother because she was worth it and she
     ran away not because you loved her but for other
     reasons. 
3.  If I went out with a black coat and was involved in
     an accident does it mean that the reason is the black
     coat.  Nonsense !. 
4.  You need proffessional help !.  The sooner the better. 
5.  Don't loose your ability to trust and love !.  Please
     Please, Please !.  
6.  Think good (and possitive) and it will be good.  
G-d bless you (you deserve it and need it !).