Hi, Kurt: That is strange. Have you tried logging out of AOL Webmail and logging back in? I'm wondering if the Send button will then appear.
Are you using the AOL Desktop software? If so, please try the solutions/suggestions listed in the article below.
Send Now button is missing in the Write Mail window
If not, please try contacting our Mail team. To do so, please refer to the instructions in the following article: http://help.aol.com/help/microsites/search.do?cmd=displayKC&docType=kc&externalId=70969