Discuss omjkuh's answer to: I have developed a fetish for being taken advantage of

Wisest mom, what I get from Nichole's scenario is that there may have been some deceit in the situation, on Nichole's part.  If she did not want it to happen, she should have said something about it at the get go. We do not know what took place just before the sexual encounter.  She indicated that she"played drunk and passed out", but we do not know whether she initiated any such advances towards her friend prior to the sex.  She very well have acted drunk to excuse coming onto him just incase he pushed her away so that later she would not have to explain to him why she came on to him. I also took into consideration that she stated that she yelled at him after the sex took place, and did not state that she was upset with him, but rather insinuated that she felt badly for yelling at him, which leads me to believe that she wanted something to happen between them.  I do not disagree that it looks badly against the friend for having sex with her while she was passed out, but as I said, we don't know just how passed out she pretended to be. Ultimately, only Nichole knows the situation and whether or not is was rape.  She did not ask if we thought she was raped or not, she merely asked if she needed help for her fetish.