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Depression And Panic

My girlfriend is 19 years old. She is a student. She is not overweight and doesn't have any physical disabilities, though the problem she has is serious nervousness. Every time when she has important exams, gets extremely nervous and stressed with frequent panics. She cries all the time and complains about herself being unable to study, having mental defect and that she can't overcome the exams and has constant fear of getting failed. Moreover, during this periods she often talks about wishing to commit suicide and all the problems will be solved in that way. It is very hard to encourage and get her calmed down despite trying all days and whole days. Once thinking that she is calmed down, she starts panic and crying again and again. Due to this stressful condition, she is really unable to concentrate on studying, loses lots of time in crying and thinking about being unable to reach desired results and lacks of time needed for proper preparation for the exams. In addition, she often admits that, when she starts to read the textbooks, gets extremely sleepy and can't prepare properly. She totally lacks self-motivation and hope for reaching the goal. She complains about future fails and that the end of the semester will be awful in terms of GPA and marks. This problem occurs not only before exams but also some other problems too, which she considers to be hard to solve, starts again crying complaining and gets in panic. Her such kind of problem has awful influence on our love relationship and has very bad impact even on me. I would be very thankful if you inform me your opinion and diagnosis about this case. can it be solved? How can she overcome this problem and in what period of time? How can others be helpful for her, including me? How can doctors help and which doctor should she visit?If any medication will solve this problem? Thank you in advance and hope to receive your answer.

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Boy, you have a problem. Why hasn't got medical help before now? I myself would of moved on a long time ago,because it will be a lifetime of work.  But if you love her and want to stay with her then the first thing I would do is get her to a doctor who can help her. This will need a lot of love and understanding and she may never reach her goals. I'm sorry if I sound uncaring, but this is bigger than you can fix by yourself.

She may have ADHD...and there are medications for that.  Just take her to her regular physician...General Practitioner and either he/she can help or refer her to a specialist.  This is way out of your control or expertise.  Leave it to the professionals and continue to give her your love and support.  She's going to need it.

I wish you both the best, Honey.

Sincerely, Faye

"A daughter holds your hand for only a short while...but she holds your heart forever."

oh its big issue in this century. No body is free from this mental concentration and hesitation to deal a situation like study.

More or less it can be come-out /decrease from this situation is get friend of her type and engage what she like to get success fully from this panic.

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