Posted by cgventitre 4 years ago In:

dating

Dating a busy guy or player?

Ok, I met this guy 1st wk, he called, text every day, told me he was ready for a relationship and wanted to see me every day,we had 3 dates, 2nd week we saw each other only 1 day and had sex on this day, 3rd week he has stopped calling only text me in the mornings on his way to work. I invited him to a easter sunday barbeque, his answer was let me get back with you, still wating for answer so than I asked are we getting together on friday his respond was yes but with hesitation, whats up? my friend says he has no time being a farmer, and 8-5 job in the city, plus being an only child to take care of his mother who is 72 yrs. old. what up?

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Trish01 Answered:

RELAX. Leave him alone. Let him come to you. It sounds to me your coming on WAY to strong and your scaring him off. Plus, inviting him to Sunday Easter with your family is a scary thing to guys. That means he has to meet the family=serious. It's too soon to be SO serious. Just do your own thing....meet up with friends and keep busy. If he likes you he'll call.

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eric.van1982 Answered:

Truthfully, I think he's backing off because you had sex with him so soon. I think he probably said just about anything he could to get you into bed and much to his surprise, it worked. If you give up the goods so quickly, he's likely to not hang around for a long time. I think this may be a lost cause.

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A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.

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RICKALATINA_305 Answered:

Well first you have to let him know how you feel and i think you rushed to much on doing it with him you should take things slow and get to know that person before you jump to that next step my advice would be to talk to him and see whats goin on with him

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anonymous Answered:

Interesting...he made time to have sex with you. Please don't take that as an insult. It sounds like this guy enjoys the pursuit. He got his goal (sex) and now it isn't as "fun" anymore. You aren't as much of a priority as you used to be because he there's less to chase after. His ego has been fed (for now). This would make me think twice about wanting to continue anything with this person. i wouldn't contact him again. I suspect that as soon as you stop contacting him, he'll come back around. Whether you want to contine something with him is up to you.