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ok here is the deal!! i am remarried and its almost our 2nd aniversary .. i have to take a hormone pill because i had to have a hysteretmya nd my new hubby wouldnt buy the med , i had to ask my ex hubby for the money!!1 what should i do? please help me

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Why will your current husband not pay for the medications? Something doesn't make sense here.

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Im not sure why he wouldnt!! I feel like there is such a distance between us anymore, im not sure what i should do!! I mean i had the surgery just a few weeks ago so he knows that i have to have it!!Im really confused about the whole situation!! To make things worse i moved out of my apt and moved a hour and a half away from my family and friends to be treated like shit!!! Sometimes i think i should just move back home and be done with it, what do u think?

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your new husband wouldn't buy the med?WHAT?!i would be so out of his life!what kind of a husband doesn't buy his wife medicine?i think that maybe you should get a job,and stop depending on your husband and ex-husband to take care of you!Since your new husband doesn't want to!that doesn't sound right to me!i would not put up with that treatment!

Fool me once, shame on you!! Fool me twice,shame on me!

Have you asked your current husband why he won't pay for the medicine? And if you have, what does he say? My next question to you: do you love your current husband? If you do, I would suggest marriage counseling. There are clearly some issues you and he need to work out if your marriage is going to last and you both will be happy.

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Is there any love between you and your husband? If yes then while you need physical help to help you recover from this operation he probably needs psychological therapy to deal with the way he is acting. His refusal to buy you the medicine might be a sign of denial since you are both young but you probably will not be able to have a child and he is finding it difficult to deal with it. At this time you need a lot of rest and sympathy and loving and I truly regret you are not getting it.

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