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Marisol
Marisol Asked:

Closure By His Apology

I was raped when I was 15 yrs old by my ex-boyfriend. I was a virgin.He told me not to say anything or he would hurt me and my family, so i didnt. He forced with to stay with him for 1 yr. after that. He also attempted to rape my older sister after our breakup. Im 42 yrs old now and I would like this man to apologize face to face for what he did to me. Can someone advise me on this situation plz?

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elizabeth
elizabeth Answered:

I would say that you should have done that a lond time ago but no i dont think it is worth it now u should go on with your life as you have.

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Marisol
Marisol Answered:

thank u for ur response. the thought of his apologizing to me just now came to mind simply because ive never forgotten. the fact that he raped me never gets old. no rape does. i can never forget this and i dont think that he should either.

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Marisol
Marisol Answered:

thank u for ur response. the thought of his apologizing to me just now came to mind simply because ive never forgotten. the fact that he raped me never gets old. no rape does. i can never forget this and i dont think that he should either.

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Rock
Rock Answered:

I don't think it is a bad idea because it could be therapeutic for you as you hope. The question I would ask is how you could get him to apologize. The meeting could be extremely painful to you and you should consider that. Are you ready to take that chance?

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Marisol
Marisol Answered:

Thank you for your support and answer. Yes, your right. It might be somewhat painful, maybe not, being that I haven't seen him since 1982. But, its a chance i'm willing to take. I want him to know that although, 27 yrs have gone by, i've never forgotten what he put me through. I would just hope to GOD, he never did it to anyone else. Thank you so much again!

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Elizabeth
Elizabeth Answered:

i know that and i do agree with that but i was just sayin. You know i bet he lives with that regret every day as he should.

 

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Marisol
Marisol Answered:

i hope ur right about him living with it everyday. these thoughts of my past have come and gone throughout my life. I thank God it didnt affect me like it has other people who've been in this situation. (much worse than I.) Thank u!

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Rock
Rock Answered:

I would just ask you to reconsider and think of the Greek story of Pandora's Box.

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