Originated From
 ArticlesBase

Posted by slpkmtkat 4 years ago In:

slpkmtkat
slpkmtkat Asked About 'Child Discipline: 10 Basic Guidelines'

I have a 11 year old girl who will be turning 12 ...

i have a 11 year old girl who will be turning 12 soon, i am at my wits end with her. she lies about anything and everything. we have tried everything there is to do to puinsh her, but nothing works. she does have add. i don't understand why she wants to coutine to lie. if there is any way some other reason or solution we haven't tried we will try it

Liked this question? Tell your friends about it

3 Answers

Order by
Oldest to Newest
Newest to Oldest
Votes
profitbob
profitbob Answered:

There has been some new research that shows a statistical connection between add and tonsils.  The study claimed that children who had their tonsils removed didn't have add and were less likely to be problem children. 

If it's not fun, you're doing it wrong. FREE !!! Help the U.N. feed people by playing a free game at freerice.com It's free, fun and educational. Professor Snotsengabber, a charter member of S.N.O.T.S.
Add a comment Report
curtis
curtis Answered:

Try counseling

Add a comment Report
Debbie
Debbie Answered:

Get the book "How to Talk so Kids Will Listen, And Listen So Kids Will Talk" for starters. You should also, by now, be well versed in A.D.D. This condition is one of the most difficult during the teen years. Children with A.D.D. have very little self control and are often impulsive and act without regard to consequences. They often cover their mistakes in judgement by lying, and will gravitate towards kids who are equally undisciplined for various reasons because they feel more comfortable with them.  They tend to have a very negative view of themselves because they know right from wrong, they just struggle with impulsive behavior and often feel out of control, they give in to quickly to negative behaviors. Depending on the level of behavior, I would strongly suggest that you consult with a behavior specialist who is trained and familiar with A.D.D. They can guide you thru the best response to your child's behaviors, recommend successful, current medications that are available, and help you to work with the problem in a constructive way so that you daughter has a bright future, instead of one she will regret.  You doctor or guidance counselor at school  may be able to help you locate someone in your area that will work with your child.  You can also check out this website, which has a wealth of information. Good luck and God bless!  Home | Quality ADHD/ADD information provided by Attention Deficit Disorder Resources

"Faith is the rudder the steers your boat, courage is the stuff you use to plug up the holes."
Add a comment Report

Related Questions

Other people asked questions on similar topics, check out the answers they received:

Sybil

Asked: Discipline vs Punishment

When it comes to child rearing, two words which always come out are 'discipline' and 'punishment'. Do discipline and punishment refer to the same thing? It seems that discipline has always been ...
toughenup

Asked: What's So Hard About Biblical Discipline?

God has created us and in the Bible, His Word, He tells us how to discipline our children. Parents are to be in authority and they are to use a rod or a round stick. Children who are disciplined in ...
JKG

Asked: Child adhd and odd in hospital programs

Child adhd and odd in hospital programs?
  • Posted by JKG 5 days ago