Discuss andrewcranky's answer to: If you could change one characteristic of the person you love; what would it be & why?

There are certainly things about my lady friend that annoy me. Just as there are things about me that bug her ( for example my seeming inability to put the toilet paper on the role facing the right direction.)( Oh, Whatever. )

However. I love her. And she is not any one part of herself, but the sum total of them. If I took out the parts that bug me. I would deminish who she really is.