You can yell at a cat till you turn blue in the face but you must catch them in the act of doing what you do not like and spritz them with water in the face to stop them from doing what you dislike.\
Cats are smart and unlike dogs if you abuse them they will leave you. They will not take it they have lots of people they go to for food and if you do not spade or nueter them they are very intelligent and have their people throughout the community.
In fact a Tomcat can travel 20 miles or more to get what he needs.
So do not underestimate your cat.
Or your man.
How far can your aliases travel to get what they need or get to the nearest KKK meeting?