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Boyfriend/ex-girlfriend

okay im dora my boyfriend (Liam] is hanging out wit his ex-girlfriends they dated for like a year  nd im scared that if he chills wit her then he going to feel something wit her. nd i really like him ^*7.26.09*^

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Katey
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Hi, i don't know if you would listen to a 13 year old for this kind of problem but i do know what you mean. What i think is that if he likes you or (loves) you... not sure... enough, that you should trust him and dont worry about it. but on the other hand if they had something real.. then you could be worried about it. what i think you should do is talk to him about it and if he sounds nervous or puts it back on you then let him go, and if he comes back to you you'll know you guys were real... and umm this is really long but i hope it help at least a little Dora :)

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Hi Dora ,  How old are you and your BF and how long have you been together ? Did they just recently start hanging out together ? Where are you when they are  " hangin' out " ?   Do the three of you not hang out together ? Does he ever ask you to go along with him or is he making an effort to keep the two of you separated ?  You apparently are unsure what his and or hers " Chill Out "  motives are , and you have little trust in your relationship .  Trust is earned , as he earned your trust ?  How did his relationship end with this girl and /or his other girlfriends ?  Does he have a pattern of infidelity and dishonesty ?  You need to have a talk with your BF , express your feelings and concerns to him .  I wonder how he would feel if it were you Chillin with a old Boyfriend , perhaps ask him that question .  I agree with Katey ,  talk with him and watch his body lanuage , listen to his words carefully , watch his eyes , is he able to make eye contact with you . It all comes down to communication , trust and how much he cares for your feelings . Right or wrong these are your feelings , you can't help how you feel , he should take your feelings in to condsideration .  If he cares for you he will not let his Chillin with her come between you and him .  None of this means you should be blind to what is going on around you .  What does your inner voice tell you , it is rarely wrong , when we choose to listen and not turn a deaf ear .

Katey , Thumb Up , nice answer .  You are a smart young lady , 13 years wise . Welcome To Yedda .

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