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Boyfriend Problems

My boyfriend and I have been dating (and living together) for 6 months. He is genuinely the best guy I have ever dated...he treats me well and is very sweet. Except. He confuse me on one note. It seems like he constantly wants to treat me like a baby. For example, I have to take two medications. He always asks to see the pills and will actually get up, follow me, take the bottle from me and give me the pills himself. I tell him I can get them and he flips out ans storms out of the room. The kitchen is a whole other mess. I will be cooking and he always stands over me !! I love having him cook with me, but for example, I will stir something and not 5 secs later he will want to stir it, and when I ask why he's like you know just in case. In case what? I am not capable to stir something? And everytime I use a method he may not be familiar with he yells and criticizes it, it drives me nuts !! Then at night when we are sleeping he sleeps smack dab in the middle of the bed on his back with his arms outstretched and tells ME I am taking up the bed. He will physically move me. I'm sick of even arguing with him. He will actually yell and slam doors and throw a hissy fit and leave. Am I wrong here or is he??? What should I do??

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Bonestructure
Bonestructure Answered:

I'm sorry, but there's something wrong with this guy./ His behavior is bordering on obsessive compulsive. He treats you well and is very sweet? Not in my opinion.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.
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Lordoftheringsfanatic
Lordoftheringsfanatic Answered:

Um he needs some serious help if hes gonna coddle you and then treat you like you're garbage and you say he's sweet? Ya right someone who is sweet (In my opinion) should be looking out for you and calling YOU sweetie and just doing nice things but he's just crazy!

a person should be as enthusiastic and dangerous as Legolas
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Bonestructure
Bonestructure Answered:

He's also demonstrating quite clearly that he has no respect for you.

If a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, then that makes me a burning truck filled with TNT hurtling through a rocket fuel depot.
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LindaRuth
LindaRuth Answered:

Yell,slam dooors, throw a fit and leave.

Do you understand that this is not normal behavior?  I have been married for 35 years and my husband has never done this. I have never done this to him either. What this is, is manipulative behavior. He has control issues.  He is a spoiled brat, sounds like to me.  I also agree that it might be obsessive compulsive behavior.   It is NOT sweet.   He may throw a few sweet acts in there just to confuse you but over all he is not sweet.

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Lordoftheringsfanatic
Lordoftheringsfanatic Answered:

Ya you both are right

a person should be as enthusiastic and dangerous as Legolas
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OronD
OronD Answered:

Several short comments:
1.  He has a problem.   I can't say exactly what it is
     but I am sure he has a problem. 
2.  He is controlling you !. 
3.  No offence, please, but the way he treats you is
     far from being "well". 
4.  I have a feeling your judgement (of him) is far 
     from being real.  He is sure not sweet and is sure
     NOT treating you well. 
5.  I have a feeling he is not mature.
6.  If I were you I would doubt if he is the right guy
     for me. 
 

Love is the battery of life....
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